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How To Know If A Girl Likes You

How To Know If A Girl Likes YouIs there anything worse than being attracted to a girl, but having absolutely no idea if she feels the same way about you? We have all been in that position at one time or another, with many guys totally misreading the situation. A common mistake that men tend to make is believing that a girl must be attracted to them just because she is nice to them. Women are generally more polite and friendly than men, yet guys always end up thinking “she wants me” whenever a pretty girl smiles at them or just acts nice towards them. If you want to avoid the embarrassment of rejection, read on to discover a few signals that will reveal whether or not a girl really likes you.

It’s actually not that hard to figure out of a girl likes you or not, especially if you are the type of guy that pays attention to the small details. Body language speaks a million words without a single phrase ever being uttered. Most of us aren’t even aware of the signals that we are giving off, but if you know what to look for, you can save yourself a lot of guesswork. A girl that is into you will almost always unconsciously start playing with her hair. She will twirl it around her fingers, flick it back and basically constantly groom it with her hands. It is a dead giveaway that you can pretty much take to the bank.

You should also pay attention to her proximity to you, especially compared to other people. If you find that she stands real close or always finds a way to sit beside you, there is a good chance she likes you. If she behaves differently around you than she does with other people, that could also be a pretty solid sign. For example, if she hugs you but just says hello to other guys, or touches your arm when she talks, but doesn’t do it with others, she likes you. [If you are trying to get your ex back, then read also: How To Get A Girl To Like You Again]

Another pretty solid giveaway that a girl likes you is when she starts to become flirtatious. Some people are just that way by nature, but if she reserves her flirty behavior for you and you alone, that is a sign she is totally into you. If you are still a little unsure, try flirting back to see what sort of reaction you get from her. If it’s a good one, you can bet that she likes you. Flirting isn’t always necessarily vocalized and can actually be displayed in some of the ways that we mentioned already. Getting up close and personal, or touching you repeatedly is just a way of flirting without actually saying anything.

Another sure way of recognizing if a girl likes you is if she goes out of her way to do nice things for you. Females tend to nurture the people that they like and love, which means buying you thoughtful little gifts or bringing you a bowl of chicken soup when you aren’t feeling well. This is not necessarily something that they would do for just anyone, so you can consider yourself pretty special of a girl starts to really go out of her way to see you and do nice things. I think it’s important to mention here that this is not something that you should try to take advantage of. If this is a girl that you like, try to find ways to say thank you and reciprocate her thoughtfulness.

If you are among one of the lucky crowd, all of the guesswork will be taken out of the equation by her girlfriends. You may not be aware of it, but you are constantly being judged as to whether or not you are good boyfriend material. If a girl likes you and her girlfriends deem you worthy of her affections, they will quickly let you know that she is into you. They will want to make sure that their girl lands you before some other woman can get her claws into you. This is not something that you should sit back and wait for, though, so take the time to learn the signs that every girl gives off when they like you.